I have full day-to-day care of my 2 children ages 13 and 14 years old. The family court orders state that the father has them every Christmas school holidays. When the kids were younger, they wanted to see him, but now when it comes to having to book the tickets, I have to force them to get on the plane. Well, it's that time again and my son who is 14 has phoned his father and told him he doesn't want to go and won't go. My daughter has allegedly told her friends that she is uncomfortable and also scared to go, especially if her brother won't go. If I don't send them, I am in breach of my court order and he has also loudly told the kids, "well, the courts will force you to come because I'm taking your mother back to court." This has spiraled my son into complete anger towards his father. Can I seek a family court hearing to have my kids heard in court?