My husband and I have only been seperated for a week. I am currently away for a few days for work. I have just received a message from him saying he has primary custody of children and I have to look alternative accommodation. My name is on the lease, I have been paying every bill including rent and I am the mother of those three children. Surely, he can't make decisions like this when I'm not even there? Is this even legal under Family Law? I work away from home on a roster. And he has now taken it upon himself to say I can only see the kids every second weekend. Even with him making Centrelink appointments, does he have this right? In another message, he wrote that if I want the kids full time, I have to quit my job. He won;t even listen to a 50/50 custody arrangement. I am so lost.