Hi I need help, I am married and lacked the attention I desired in my relationship and I had a friend on facebook that would talk to me another woman who is also married. We started talking as per normal and one night things got a little naughty yes we crossed the line but we stopped before things got out of hand, we continued to talk normally with the occasional what I would call a confidence boost to our egos. After a couple of days, she deleted me as a friend which didnt bother me as I had no intentioms of pursuing anything further with her. After approximately 1 month, she contatced my wife and told her what I did, she told my wife she told an ex work colleague also. The problem is she is worried about her job and suing me for defamation, but I haven't said anything to anyone or denied what was said. I admitted to my wife of my mistake and what was said. I take full responsibility for my actions, but I cant understand why she would bring it up and want to sue when I haven't told anyone or defamed her at all. Please help.