A court order has just been put in place (I have not see the documentation yet). So I can call my kids between 6 - 7 which I have been doing for a long time before this, but having problems with my partner hang up multiple times, then in the background saying it is running out of battery then I end up having to calling her phone and she tells me I have to face time video call (so she can record the call I believe) and this is the process every time.
She is a master manipulator so uses every trick in the book to have them eating, friends over or distracted in some so they don't interact with me. She also coerce them saying I am not calling and I don't want to see them (I find the really difficult can't tell them why I was suddenly forced to leave the home and are not with them all the time as I was before) so they are angry with me when I ring.
I was hoping the court order would stop this and it has not. My lawyer (who I need to move on from) is very hard to get in contact with as to why I am using this forum.
Q: Firstly can I get in trouble for ringing her number (note she also has an intervention order against me use lies which was finalised without me accepting charges for a year) and should I only ring the kids mobile number as stated in the order.
Q: As I am ringing the kids is there anyway she can get pull up for this behavior? What do I need to look out for that is an actual breach under family law so if this keeps constantly happening I can take further action to allow me to at least talk to my kids and what action do I take if she has breached?
Concerned parent...
She is a master manipulator so uses every trick in the book to have them eating, friends over or distracted in some so they don't interact with me. She also coerce them saying I am not calling and I don't want to see them (I find the really difficult can't tell them why I was suddenly forced to leave the home and are not with them all the time as I was before) so they are angry with me when I ring.
I was hoping the court order would stop this and it has not. My lawyer (who I need to move on from) is very hard to get in contact with as to why I am using this forum.
Q: Firstly can I get in trouble for ringing her number (note she also has an intervention order against me use lies which was finalised without me accepting charges for a year) and should I only ring the kids mobile number as stated in the order.
Q: As I am ringing the kids is there anyway she can get pull up for this behavior? What do I need to look out for that is an actual breach under family law so if this keeps constantly happening I can take further action to allow me to at least talk to my kids and what action do I take if she has breached?
Concerned parent...