Hello.
Can someone tell me what to expect in a joint mediation session for a parenting plan? I've just been given the date and timeframe and it's a 2-hour time slot. I know we will talk about who sees the children when and I've been told special occasion days will be spoken about, but what else?
I've drafted what I'd like to achieve out of mediation and it's like 10 minutes tops it would take me to say all of that and I don't think he'd disagree on any of it? So I'm just at a loss as to what would happen for the next hour and 45 mins?
Is there some kind of checklist the mediator goes through to say who gets them on this day who gets them school holidays even though they are too young for school? I just hate being unprepared and not knowing what to expect on my private session. The mediator was nice but said that they will explain in the joint session and I feel like that's silly cause I'm unprepared for what they may ask.
I wasn't asked anything about what I'd like to achieve from the joint session. He more or less had a list of 15 questions that he asked and it was mainly about my personal relationship with the ex, why the relationship split, had either of us moved on, did I feel my ex was happy and why? Was I happy and why?
He asked how willing I am to come to an agreement. He asked about my ex's partner and her character. He asked if I believed my ex was willing to come to a civil agreement. Is he verbally abusive, etc., and asked who my kids were, how old and that was it.
Can someone tell me what to expect in a joint mediation session for a parenting plan? I've just been given the date and timeframe and it's a 2-hour time slot. I know we will talk about who sees the children when and I've been told special occasion days will be spoken about, but what else?
I've drafted what I'd like to achieve out of mediation and it's like 10 minutes tops it would take me to say all of that and I don't think he'd disagree on any of it? So I'm just at a loss as to what would happen for the next hour and 45 mins?
Is there some kind of checklist the mediator goes through to say who gets them on this day who gets them school holidays even though they are too young for school? I just hate being unprepared and not knowing what to expect on my private session. The mediator was nice but said that they will explain in the joint session and I feel like that's silly cause I'm unprepared for what they may ask.
I wasn't asked anything about what I'd like to achieve from the joint session. He more or less had a list of 15 questions that he asked and it was mainly about my personal relationship with the ex, why the relationship split, had either of us moved on, did I feel my ex was happy and why? Was I happy and why?
He asked how willing I am to come to an agreement. He asked about my ex's partner and her character. He asked if I believed my ex was willing to come to a civil agreement. Is he verbally abusive, etc., and asked who my kids were, how old and that was it.