Hello.
I have my first mediation session next week and I am feeling a bit anxious about it as I don't know what to expect from it. The company I'm going through more or less just told me that my ex and I have an individual session first and then a combined one together.
What happens in the individual session? Do I need to do anything to prepare for it, like note what I hope to achieve out of it? What happens in the combined session? Is it most likely we will achieve and outcome in this session or is it done over a few?
My ex and I do not talk at all unless its specifically about the kids. He lives in a different state to me and currently not wanting to travel to see the kids. He's been spreading lies, saying that I took the kids without his permission even though I had him sign paperwork to say otherwise and he's also telling people I'm refusing him contact with the kids which I am not. I offered to bring them to him and he all of a sudden was too busy to see them.
I'm worried that my ex is an exceptional liar and happy to turn on the water works to play things in his favour. What do I do if he does this in mediation? Can I bring up the lies he's telling people about me refusing him hes kids or is it irrelevant? I just want more clarification on exactly what mediation is for so I dont waste time on things that are pointless in mediation.
Sorry for the million questions. I just can't find anyone who can answer them for. I've spoken to a community solicitor and got no real answers she told me to just go with the flow.
Many thanks
I have my first mediation session next week and I am feeling a bit anxious about it as I don't know what to expect from it. The company I'm going through more or less just told me that my ex and I have an individual session first and then a combined one together.
What happens in the individual session? Do I need to do anything to prepare for it, like note what I hope to achieve out of it? What happens in the combined session? Is it most likely we will achieve and outcome in this session or is it done over a few?
My ex and I do not talk at all unless its specifically about the kids. He lives in a different state to me and currently not wanting to travel to see the kids. He's been spreading lies, saying that I took the kids without his permission even though I had him sign paperwork to say otherwise and he's also telling people I'm refusing him contact with the kids which I am not. I offered to bring them to him and he all of a sudden was too busy to see them.
I'm worried that my ex is an exceptional liar and happy to turn on the water works to play things in his favour. What do I do if he does this in mediation? Can I bring up the lies he's telling people about me refusing him hes kids or is it irrelevant? I just want more clarification on exactly what mediation is for so I dont waste time on things that are pointless in mediation.
Sorry for the million questions. I just can't find anyone who can answer them for. I've spoken to a community solicitor and got no real answers she told me to just go with the flow.
Many thanks