I moved out of home in about July, however in that period I did what I consider "re-date" my ex-husband. We probably have shared meals on over 100 occasions and have had sex over a dozen times - however recently I have decided that I do not want to return to the relationship. I am just wondering, since I never moved back in with him - can I file for divorce considering it has been 12 months since July? My ex wanted to rekindle the relationship, however I do not. Am I right that even though we spent a lot of time together, including intimate time - I can legally divorce him because I never moved back in during those 12 months? Any help would be greatly appreciated. FYI we last had sex about 2 months ago - and for a period of around 3-4 months we saw each other nearly every day and shared meals most days. I did spend a lot of nights with him, not always having sex.