Hi I am wondering if this is this best way to get things sorted in a property settlement as currently ex has not responded to any documents by my lawyer. He has just not given me his proposal to look at though I have taken it to my lawyer as wanting to make sure I don't get an unfair deal as his income is well above mine. Throughout our marriage, my main role was stay at home mum of 4. I didn't personally respond to his proposal as I feel he will control the situation. This has been a long stressful situation.