SA Process of Filing for Recovery Orders?

[sammy01]

Look - this is messy - but you can't offer to not collect child support in return for being able to move. You will find this impacts on your family tax benefit. Even if there an agreement for no child support, Child support will still collect if you ask... So even if you say you promise you won't.... I would not trust you. Why? Well I don't trust my ex, why should your ex trust you? After all, you don't trust him either do you?

Look, there sort of is away around this - if you agree to tell to the family tax benefit mob that he is paying by a private collect rather than through them, that will work but it is breaking the rules...

 

[MartyK]

I'll only add. In terms of A and B, I hope you have documented evidence of these communications. They could asssist your case.

As for C, well, this could be viewed as a negative about you. Child support should not be a bargaining chip, it might be seen as you treating the child like a possession.

 

[lillypilly]

Gahhhhh...It's like doomed either way :/ I have the entire conversation recorded so I don't know if that works for proof? I'm feeling that lost and alone with the whole thing hence why I was contemplating just how bad it really would end up if I did shoot through. I just see no end

 

[AllForHer]

Just file an application to relocate and wait until the next hearing.

 

[lillypilly]

Yes that's what I'm doing, just don't know what chance I have?