Hi, I am New Zealand citizen and my wife is Asian and living in Australia for 2 years. I pay for her medical insurance and airfares when we visited overseas. We married in Asia. We lived apart last year for 8 months and been apart since March. She does what she likes and doesn't care about our relationship. It's like this for the last 2 years now. She has neither talked about or wanted a divorce but I am done with her. Can I file for divorce? Contested divorce? What will be the outcome?