I have recently learnt that my wife has been having an affair. We worked through this, but she has now told me that she is only with me because it makes everyone else happy but she is not. We have 2 children and 2 foster children and both work full time. I would like to get parental custody of children of all 4 of them as I am the one who keeps the house running, sport, school daycare, etc., and her job requires a lot of interstate travel. Whilst she earns more than me, I am the one who is always there for anything to do with the kids and she is not. I don't know how this works and I guess being a father we never get the rights to the kids but I have a lot of documented evidence that proves I am the one who is the constant in the boys life daily and do the school drop off and pick up. Can anyone help with family law ideas?