hi i waist a defect relationship for 22 yrs before i left for approx 6 yrs i helped run his business, i left almost 12 months ago, no property settlement has been finalised he keeps offering me amounts, but i have been told not to accept without legal advice which i have and legal aid have told me the pool is too big for them and i would have to get another lawyer to look at it which i cant afford. my question is my ex now want s me to pay half of his business tax bill which is nearly $50k, i don't currently work i am on unpaid leave to care for my baby, and my only income is from government benefits, he doesn't pay regular child support and wont be truthful about his wage he works for himself and pays a lot of people in cash so it cant be traced, he also has started to give away my property and property we had whilst in the relationship, i left with 6 bags of clothes and nothing else due to domestic violence. its been really hard for me and the children.