My ex and I made consent orders after a long and bitter process. The orders, however, are in practice not clear on the time my son will spend with the ex in the school holidays. Basically, it says 1 week for the ex but another point then says when the ex-partner's kids are there.
I've asked my very nasty ex to clarify if this is week 1 or 2 in the holidays but he is refusing to tell me. The order says it commences at the end of the school term. The ex will have time from Monday to Monday but it doesn't specify which week.
My ex gets time every 2nd weekend and this coincides when the partner's kids are there but how to interpret the orders for school holidays is impossible? I would assume that my son will be with his father the 2nd week, which would be his normal weekend time with his father but the orders say at the conclusion of the school term which could mean straight up in week 1 of holidays or just as an end point to the school term.
I don't care which week it is but because my ex won't clarify his understanding, I can't make care and holiday arrangements ahead of time. Basically, once again my ex is using this to control and have a hold on me.
Can I get the order changed to specify the actual week and if so how? As I can't adhere to something when I don't have the correct information and when it can be interpreted differently by either party.
Help - I thought this was over for me!
I've asked my very nasty ex to clarify if this is week 1 or 2 in the holidays but he is refusing to tell me. The order says it commences at the end of the school term. The ex will have time from Monday to Monday but it doesn't specify which week.
My ex gets time every 2nd weekend and this coincides when the partner's kids are there but how to interpret the orders for school holidays is impossible? I would assume that my son will be with his father the 2nd week, which would be his normal weekend time with his father but the orders say at the conclusion of the school term which could mean straight up in week 1 of holidays or just as an end point to the school term.
I don't care which week it is but because my ex won't clarify his understanding, I can't make care and holiday arrangements ahead of time. Basically, once again my ex is using this to control and have a hold on me.
Can I get the order changed to specify the actual week and if so how? As I can't adhere to something when I don't have the correct information and when it can be interpreted differently by either party.
Help - I thought this was over for me!