Hi I'm 80 years old, stuck in bed, with not long to go. I have a de facto I have lived with for 18 months. I enjoy her company at this difficult time but she does not like any of my family and for no real reason. I have always paid my way when I lived with her, shouted her a car, a shed for the car, paid many household bills,took her on 3 big holidays and given her about 30,000 in cash. Happy to help her out but my will is for my kids and I fear her family will coach her into contesting it and ruining my plans to pass on my estate to my kids and force the kids into a drawn out legal case with an unknown outcome. Please help. Is there anything I can do?