My ex and I have been separated for a year now. When we first split, she stayed in the same house for 2 months before moving out. During the 2 months she contributed nothing in the way of food for our kids(3 kids under 15) and emotional support for them. When she did move out she only had 3 phone calls with our kids (instigated by me). Didn't want to see them or spend time with them. Then it was a Saturday or Sunday every fortnight.
I asked for a weeks notice when she wanted to see our kids but it was generally a day or two prior. She had seen then 6 times in 8 months. She saw them for their Birthday for the whole day. She saw them Boxing Day for the day then we heard nothing for 3 weeks. Her excuse was 'the car broke down'. I could have dropped off & picked up our kids had I known.
Now nearly a year since our split, she is adamant that she wants 50/50. Our kids say they would like to sleep overnight but don't want to live with her. They are all very happy and settled into a great routine. They are doing better at school too. I am worried that our kids will be put through hell again just to satisfy her.
Can anyone help with family law?
I asked for a weeks notice when she wanted to see our kids but it was generally a day or two prior. She had seen then 6 times in 8 months. She saw them for their Birthday for the whole day. She saw them Boxing Day for the day then we heard nothing for 3 weeks. Her excuse was 'the car broke down'. I could have dropped off & picked up our kids had I known.
Now nearly a year since our split, she is adamant that she wants 50/50. Our kids say they would like to sleep overnight but don't want to live with her. They are all very happy and settled into a great routine. They are doing better at school too. I am worried that our kids will be put through hell again just to satisfy her.
Can anyone help with family law?