ok update to my above situation. I hired a lawyer to send a letter to the executor to give up accounts to my mums estate. she refused to sign for the letters and is ignoring us and this situation. i am worried she is going to get away with this.
Hi Tamara,
By "she", do you mean the executor refused to sign for release of accounts?
If so, you can apply to the court to order the executor (or her lawyer/accountant/bank) to release a copy of the accounts. Call up the Supreme Court of QLD (click + next to Brisbane Supreme Court) to enquire about how to do this (or ask your lawyer).
This is a heartbreaking and infuriating situation. It sounds like this "friend" has seriously breached her duties as both power of attorney and executor. As SamanthaJay pointed out, your aunt, as the co-executor, has the authority to demand an accounting and to take action against the other executor for misappropriating estate funds. The fact that she spent money without the co-executor's approval is a major red flag. It's wise to try and get a full accounting from her first, but if she refuses or the explanations are unsatisfactory, then engaging a lawyer—preferably one in WA where the probate was granted—is the right next step. The six-year limitation period applies, but it's best to act soon. For a break from this stress, you might want to check out Crash Casino - Online Play Guide for Real Money