The application for costs and the following proceedings is likely to set me back around $30,000. He’s not going to pay, we have trusts, businesses, a crypto currency business. To employ people to try and untangle his finances will run into tens of thousands. The best I can hope is that he’s bankrupted (on paper only) and that he can no longer be the director of a business. I’ll never see a cent, nor will be daughter.
I have no money left. I am tapped out. I am also emotionally done, I have PTSD from the three years long court process. Is it worth starting it again? It seems grossly unfair that he’s been able to cripple me financially & has walked away without paying a cent. But to get into more debt without a guarantee of recouping anything? Why?
It’s all very well to lodge an application, and then what? He does another financial disclosure which the judge says is obviously a lie. Then what? More and more money that I don’t have to try and unravel his finances that he’s had years to hide.
If it was as easy as filing an application, I’d have done it.
Keep in mind the CSA hasn’t filed an application to recover the arrears despite a court order that he pay all arrears. They arguable have many more resources to do this than I would.