Hi, I have first court hearing in Feb I am scared out of bones what normally happens in the first court hearing.
I haven't been served but I rang the courts because my ex kept threatening it, and they told me I have a court date on the 21st of Feb
Any advice would be helpful.
From previous posts I have posted it's been a long road.
Neither one of us can agree about children . They are 15 yr old twins 16 in April and 17 yr old and just turned 4 yr old.
Right now he only has phone contact but our eldest has just come back to me after 5 months with him.
His come back violent and has been diagnosed with depression
He has issues with his dad. His father has stated that he wants to live with him.
I support my son 100% I personally don't think he should live there until he has the tools to deal with the issues.
Yes I have stopped him seeing 4 yr old due to his continued verbal abuse in front of her, there is no dvo in place at all.
I find it difficult to communicate with him. We need to co parent I get it but his do you with a person who belittles you and does it not just to you but to your children as well. My twins refuse to speak to him and he does text them and he is trying with them and I have whole heartily encouraged them to reach out.
I have literally dragged them in the car at one point.
They don't have any visits with him
I haven't been served but I rang the courts because my ex kept threatening it, and they told me I have a court date on the 21st of Feb
Any advice would be helpful.
From previous posts I have posted it's been a long road.
Neither one of us can agree about children . They are 15 yr old twins 16 in April and 17 yr old and just turned 4 yr old.
Right now he only has phone contact but our eldest has just come back to me after 5 months with him.
His come back violent and has been diagnosed with depression
He has issues with his dad. His father has stated that he wants to live with him.
I support my son 100% I personally don't think he should live there until he has the tools to deal with the issues.
Yes I have stopped him seeing 4 yr old due to his continued verbal abuse in front of her, there is no dvo in place at all.
I find it difficult to communicate with him. We need to co parent I get it but his do you with a person who belittles you and does it not just to you but to your children as well. My twins refuse to speak to him and he does text them and he is trying with them and I have whole heartily encouraged them to reach out.
I have literally dragged them in the car at one point.
They don't have any visits with him