Hey guys,
Hopefully this is the best place to post this. I got given a warning for harassment by my now ex-partner. It says if I continue to contact her in any way, it will be seen as harassment. Essentially we had issues with this girl when she was living down here for over a year (she ran away from home). I have a lot of family and friends who know that she was treated well and she struggled to hold a job when down here in Melbourne and had issues with the people employing her.
She filed the report from NSW, I am in VIC. We think that she may suffer from some type of mental disorder. My mother had major issues with her behavior when down here. I will note that she is 20, I am 31. I want to join the police and I'm not sure how this will affect my credibility. She has stated she has reported other guys to the police before so we think she might be a repeat offender or at least using the police to harass.
I just wanted to know if there was anything I could do to fight this or if it's even worth fighting. I don't want something like this on my record. She was back and forth all the time on wanting a relationship, then not wanting the relationship.
I sent her an email after being unsure and thinking she had blocked me without a word, so the email was in relation to that and to find out if it was true or if she changed numbers. We got into an argument but nothing threatening was said, just "your typical behavior is unacceptable and how you treat people is poor". That is what I wrote to her.
The police sent me an email because they couldn't reach me by phone and she didn't have my number to give.
Hopefully this is the best place to post this. I got given a warning for harassment by my now ex-partner. It says if I continue to contact her in any way, it will be seen as harassment. Essentially we had issues with this girl when she was living down here for over a year (she ran away from home). I have a lot of family and friends who know that she was treated well and she struggled to hold a job when down here in Melbourne and had issues with the people employing her.
She filed the report from NSW, I am in VIC. We think that she may suffer from some type of mental disorder. My mother had major issues with her behavior when down here. I will note that she is 20, I am 31. I want to join the police and I'm not sure how this will affect my credibility. She has stated she has reported other guys to the police before so we think she might be a repeat offender or at least using the police to harass.
I just wanted to know if there was anything I could do to fight this or if it's even worth fighting. I don't want something like this on my record. She was back and forth all the time on wanting a relationship, then not wanting the relationship.
I sent her an email after being unsure and thinking she had blocked me without a word, so the email was in relation to that and to find out if it was true or if she changed numbers. We got into an argument but nothing threatening was said, just "your typical behavior is unacceptable and how you treat people is poor". That is what I wrote to her.
The police sent me an email because they couldn't reach me by phone and she didn't have my number to give.