Family Law results are hard to predict in advance due to the wide discretionary powers of the court. All you can do is try.
The motivation of the other party is sometimes revenge and it is next to impossible to negotiate under this scenario.
Unfortunately I suspect what you say about the diminishing assets due to lawyer fees and other costs is likely to be true. The best you can hope for is to keep your costs as low as possible, ignore the bill your ex is running up, and hope to retain something of value at the end.
If the other party is not being sensible, keep your costs low by limiting the time and effort in negotiations and push for court sooner than later. The fact that you have valuations on property IS important. If the other party wants, they can obtain and pay for their own valuations. Nothing needs an agreed valuation when the other party is being unreasonable. Your lawyer will better advise how to proceed in your circumstances.
The motivation of the other party is sometimes revenge and it is next to impossible to negotiate under this scenario.
Unfortunately I suspect what you say about the diminishing assets due to lawyer fees and other costs is likely to be true. The best you can hope for is to keep your costs as low as possible, ignore the bill your ex is running up, and hope to retain something of value at the end.
If the other party is not being sensible, keep your costs low by limiting the time and effort in negotiations and push for court sooner than later. The fact that you have valuations on property IS important. If the other party wants, they can obtain and pay for their own valuations. Nothing needs an agreed valuation when the other party is being unreasonable. Your lawyer will better advise how to proceed in your circumstances.