So assuming no superannuation split?. you can make an agreement about money and kids and write it on toilet paper because legally that is what it will be. But if u can accept it and the ex accepts it then happy days and 12 mths after divorce neither of u can claim against the others assets without establishing a good reason... easy peasy..so a toilet paper agreement is not withou merit as long as both parties play nice
If u can sort it that way then pls write a book to explain how u did it because most folk here wasted a small fortune on solicitors.
Keep it amicable. Dont blow $on solicitors and your hair wont go grey overnight like mine did....