Hi. I have a 12-year-old and 10-year-old children. They have been very unhappy going to their dad's for many years. I have tried on many occasions to discuss other arrangements with no success. The older they are getting the more emotions are being seen.
1 of my children have a high anxiety causing them to vomit the night before and morning of having to go. That particular child also has severe nightmares of the father. My other child suffers anxiety also, plus OCD and has an emotional anger issues, which surface only around the dates of going to their dad's. I have had appointments with counsellors, psychologists, mentors, and read so much on the internet, but I still have no answer on when my 2 children can stop seeing their dad.
My heart breaks every time they need to go because they are scared of him and I can't protect them from going. Their father is a massive control freak, which is why I left in the first place and he now causes the children grief. I'm not one of these mums using the children against their dad. I'm genuinely concerned for their mental health and wellbeing.
If anyone can help me get help under family law, please please respond. My children are in need of help.
1 of my children have a high anxiety causing them to vomit the night before and morning of having to go. That particular child also has severe nightmares of the father. My other child suffers anxiety also, plus OCD and has an emotional anger issues, which surface only around the dates of going to their dad's. I have had appointments with counsellors, psychologists, mentors, and read so much on the internet, but I still have no answer on when my 2 children can stop seeing their dad.
My heart breaks every time they need to go because they are scared of him and I can't protect them from going. Their father is a massive control freak, which is why I left in the first place and he now causes the children grief. I'm not one of these mums using the children against their dad. I'm genuinely concerned for their mental health and wellbeing.
If anyone can help me get help under family law, please please respond. My children are in need of help.