My stepdaughter has had a relationship with her father since she was born. She is now 2 and it has only been made into a parenting plan 2 months ago that he gets 2 weeks every 2 months visitation. He was instructed by a lawyer to take that and then not return her as recovery orders take a while but her mother has applied for an urgent order and told her lawyers the 2-year-old's father hasn't seen her since she was 3 months old. She emailed us saying she has been approved the day after applying for the recovery order but there hasn't been a family court date. We have psychologist appointments because of the state we got her in and are worried about her safety. How do we go about fighting this under Family Law? And they are taking him for a costs order to make him pay her legal fees. Is this right?