My ex and I have interim orders in place. He has custody of children 4 days per fortnight. He requested an extra day, which I denied as I have plans with my parents and my child. He said he gave me over 1 month's notice (he still has never mentioned it) and that he has relatives visiting, so it's a significant event. The lawyer has already sent me three letters, so I have formally denied the request twice (costing me hundreds for a petty request). The lawyer said I have to consider how the family report writer will view this and whether I am facilitating his relationship with the child. This seems like a load of crap - am I expected to cancel my plans so he can have the child?