Hi All, and thanks to the members who provided me with some great advice regarding parental responsibility.
So here is the next set of questions, with some background too.
OP and I engaged in mediation a few weeks ago (again!!!) and she used it as a forum to berate and belittle me, it ended with the mediator separating the calls, warning the OP, linking the calls and then, After Another 5 minutes of the OP berating and swearing at me, the mediator shut down the mediation.
Today I received a letter from the OP’s solicitor with a draft court application signing over full parental responsibility, Only allowing me visits when I’m in her city, no visits to my house (I live 5 hours north) .
I’ve not spoken to our child since Jan, but have SMS’s stating if I 1) pay her more money and 2) sign over full responsibility I can talk to our child again.
The question here is; do I reply to the solicitor answering the inaccuracies in her application, and reply with my requests, or do I just say I do not consent, and let the courts handle it.
OP has already failed to appear to a contravention hearing, completely ignored the orders, failed to Provide medical and schooling information, told me mediation is “airy fairy bulls**t” yet she is trying mediate now through her solicitor.
thanks again!
So here is the next set of questions, with some background too.
OP and I engaged in mediation a few weeks ago (again!!!) and she used it as a forum to berate and belittle me, it ended with the mediator separating the calls, warning the OP, linking the calls and then, After Another 5 minutes of the OP berating and swearing at me, the mediator shut down the mediation.
Today I received a letter from the OP’s solicitor with a draft court application signing over full parental responsibility, Only allowing me visits when I’m in her city, no visits to my house (I live 5 hours north) .
I’ve not spoken to our child since Jan, but have SMS’s stating if I 1) pay her more money and 2) sign over full responsibility I can talk to our child again.
The question here is; do I reply to the solicitor answering the inaccuracies in her application, and reply with my requests, or do I just say I do not consent, and let the courts handle it.
OP has already failed to appear to a contravention hearing, completely ignored the orders, failed to Provide medical and schooling information, told me mediation is “airy fairy bulls**t” yet she is trying mediate now through her solicitor.
thanks again!