I hold a credit card in my name only, held from pre-marriage and throughout the marriage until now. After my ex left, I looked into my Insurance into the credit card for insurance payments because I am unemployed and now broke. I have received a payment so what is he liable for in assets and debts balance? The balance from separation, the balance from mediation post-separation and post-payout? If I spend it (on home maintenance and food and bills from the last 6 months he is refusing to pay despite separating only a month ago), is he liable for that part of the debt again?