I'm a self represented litigant and I have a family law matter in the Circuit Court Family Division, and its next mention is in Feb 2016. Meanwhile, my sister is getting married in September 2015 and the ex won't allow our son to attend. He has an ICL. However, how do I go about getting an order to allow my son to attend the wedding? Do we need to negotiate and arbitrate, mediation etc. before an order is made, or can I make a separate application? Cheers.