I was with my ex-girlfriend for about 8 months. We have a child and share approximately 50% care. I've worked very hard over the last 5 years and tried to save up for a future whilst paying child support.
Recently I learned about the Family Law Act. It seems ambiguous and poorly drafted. I've no basis on which to decide whether I was in a "de facto" or not. Engaging in a property settlement with her will expose years of hard-earned savings to be confiscated. There is no basis on which I can decide how to conduct my affairs, and it seems a property settlement could pop up at any arbitrary time.
It can be psychological torture getting up at work at 5am, doing a 9 hour shift not knowing if my earnings are even mine. I don't want to sound dramatic but I'm constantly anxious and it's wrecking havoc on my quality of life. I do feel like quitting and giving up. How are Australians supposed to be ambitious when upwards of 75% of their savings can be arbitrarily confiscated at the whims of a judge at any time?
Recently I learned about the Family Law Act. It seems ambiguous and poorly drafted. I've no basis on which to decide whether I was in a "de facto" or not. Engaging in a property settlement with her will expose years of hard-earned savings to be confiscated. There is no basis on which I can decide how to conduct my affairs, and it seems a property settlement could pop up at any arbitrary time.
It can be psychological torture getting up at work at 5am, doing a 9 hour shift not knowing if my earnings are even mine. I don't want to sound dramatic but I'm constantly anxious and it's wrecking havoc on my quality of life. I do feel like quitting and giving up. How are Australians supposed to be ambitious when upwards of 75% of their savings can be arbitrarily confiscated at the whims of a judge at any time?
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