Hi, Just wondering if anybody can help with my situation. I care for my 3 young children full time. I have no formal arrangement with the ex regarding custody of children. He messages me when he wants the kids and if they are free, I say no worries. He hasn't seen them for 7 weeks (partly his work, partly because he doesn't have a room for them to sleep in and who knows why else). He wants to see them for a day and says that I must drive them to him, and he will drop them home. I am refusing to drive them as I feel that after 7 weeks absence and with everything I do for the kids every day, the least he can do is pick his kids up. He saw them last on the 16th January and before that it was Mid-November. He does not attend the children's school sporting activities, did not see them Christmas day even though I asked if he would like to spend some hours with them. Am I in the wrong here? Any help would be greatly appreciated.