Hi,
We are from India.We have been legally married for the last 9 years. Due to endometriosis, I am unable to conceive. Had multiple failures with IVF and surrogacy failed twice. We are unable to apply for adoption from India due to hold by the Australian government. And my husband is not open for local adoption. But he insists on having a child.
Today, he gave me the worst news of having an affair and that woman is pregnant with his child (2 weeks). He says he will not leave me and will take care of me provided that I accept her and the child. The woman has told him that she is alright with live-in relationship with him and is also ok to hand over the child. I do not want a divorce here. I want to save this marriage. We have known each other for the last 14 years.
Now if suppose the woman is ready to give away the child, what are our chances of full custody of the child? And also what is the process? Would it come under adoption process or file for full custody from my husband's side?
In no circumstances, I want to end this marriage. My husband has not disclosed to me who that woman is - married or unmarried. I love my husband a lot and don't want to lose him.
We are from India.We have been legally married for the last 9 years. Due to endometriosis, I am unable to conceive. Had multiple failures with IVF and surrogacy failed twice. We are unable to apply for adoption from India due to hold by the Australian government. And my husband is not open for local adoption. But he insists on having a child.
Today, he gave me the worst news of having an affair and that woman is pregnant with his child (2 weeks). He says he will not leave me and will take care of me provided that I accept her and the child. The woman has told him that she is alright with live-in relationship with him and is also ok to hand over the child. I do not want a divorce here. I want to save this marriage. We have known each other for the last 14 years.
Now if suppose the woman is ready to give away the child, what are our chances of full custody of the child? And also what is the process? Would it come under adoption process or file for full custody from my husband's side?
In no circumstances, I want to end this marriage. My husband has not disclosed to me who that woman is - married or unmarried. I love my husband a lot and don't want to lose him.