Not delving into too much detail bc DV and FCFCOA etc
interim Orders state chage over occurs between father or his parents. Silent on his partner being there. Change over is in police station for my safety.
This is stressing me out and she speaks on his behalf or his mums behalf bc she believes their version (naturally). Thinks I am the dangerous one (not bothered I have my evidence).
Asked my lawyer, she said its between me and the dad and support people can be there if both parties agree.. shared it and said no because I am always doing this alone and its hard enough as it is.
Their lawyer basically said the same thing minus the permission part. Get to change over, see her and his mum there and instant shaking I almost fall over.
Lawyer is obvi out of office so I am waiting for her advice on seeing the legal aspect of this.
I don't know how to handle it all... its effecting my ability to parent at this point and I don't know how to get this intentional provoking and abuse to stop.
interim Orders state chage over occurs between father or his parents. Silent on his partner being there. Change over is in police station for my safety.
This is stressing me out and she speaks on his behalf or his mums behalf bc she believes their version (naturally). Thinks I am the dangerous one (not bothered I have my evidence).
Asked my lawyer, she said its between me and the dad and support people can be there if both parties agree.. shared it and said no because I am always doing this alone and its hard enough as it is.
Their lawyer basically said the same thing minus the permission part. Get to change over, see her and his mum there and instant shaking I almost fall over.
Lawyer is obvi out of office so I am waiting for her advice on seeing the legal aspect of this.
I don't know how to handle it all... its effecting my ability to parent at this point and I don't know how to get this intentional provoking and abuse to stop.