VIC How to Put a Stop to Community Defamation?

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  1. Rowan

    Rowan Active Member

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    In 2012 (through đaily verbal and emotional violence towards myself which was threatening to become physical) I was forced out of the house where I rented a room, and having found no immediate place to stay, found myself without a home and living on the street.

    5 years later, this has still not been resolved, with some of the major negative influences being regular theft from myself and the community lying about me - lies that are so defamatory in character that it is destroying everything for me, including my health, and ability to follow through where finding a place to live is concerned, including financial ability.

    Is there a way to deal with this continual lying, interference, defamation, manipulation, and theft, so that I can remove myself from these circumstances safely and return to normal life?

    Thank you and best regards.
     
  2. DMQC

    DMQC Well-Known Member

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    You're going to need to be a bit clearer:

    1. What are they saying?
    2. Who are 'they'?
    3. Through what form of communication are the individuals involved making said accusations?
    4. In what way is it destroying everything for you?
    5. How has it impacted your financial situation?

    With a bit more info I will be able to give an informed opinion.

    Cheers
     
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  3. Rowan

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    Thank you for your reply.

    Lying: that I support myself through being a "working girl". This has never been so on any level, and never will be. And that I can prove.

    That I steal. I do not. And that, whilst not easy to prove, is true. That I 'like' all sorts of weirdo interpersonal practices. In truth, I never let anyone near me and never approach anyone else interpersonally. In fact I insist on being on my own and that is all there is to it.

    There are also the social criticisms, the ordinary lines: "she thinks she's better than we are/ too good for us/doesn't do anything for others/ doesn't to others" etc, which makes no sense when one just knows oneself and what is right for oneself.

    How has this affected me?

    The attitudes towards myself from this sort of expectation are often extreme, I've been in 'Coventry' for almost two years now, plus social set-ups that can and do humiliate. Searching for a place to live, applying for possible share houses consistently ends with me cancelling because of the stress associated with whether I can live in proximity with others after all of this.

    I cannot, and I know I cannot as far as things go at the moment.

    The list goes on: loss of place and opportunity to continue with creative ideas and often seeing my ideas out there in someone else's hands, especially after the loss of notebooks, phones, and so on.
    Then there is the emotional affect and aspect, as none of this is anything that can be normalized without throwing away the future.

    Who? Past neighbours, landlords, family members, social stirrers and social workers at times. This, that or the other community group who don't undetstand personal boundaries regardless of my not having my own home any more.

    The degree of theft has cost me a fortune, as a crystal enthusiast, the cost of thefts has been incredible.

    I hope this answers your question adequately.

    Thank you and best regards
     
  4. DMQC

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    Ok, so as I understand it, you want to stop interference from 'Past neighbours, landlords, family members, social stirrers and social workers at times. This, that or the other community group who don't undetstand personal boundaries regardless of my not having my own home any more.'?

    I am still perplexed as to what your question is, am I correct in my understanding that you want to stop interference in your life from 'Past neighbours, landlords, family members, social stirrers and social workers at times. This, that or the other community group who don't undetstand personal boundaries regardless of my not having my own home any more. '?
     
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  5. Rowan

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    Thank you for your reply, my phone has gone walkabout so I have not been able to access this site on other than a public computer till now.

    I know that the paragraph you have quoted sounds absurd, but dealing with this degree of negative transference and false attitudes towards myself, every day, is creating follow-on circumstances that it is very difficult to deal with.

    I think that, with other legal matters that I've also questioned here, going ahead with these will show up the specific areas and persons most responsible and most likely to interfere or block me completely from finding the answers to stopping basically, a network of destructive lies where I am concerned.

    Thank you
     
  6. DMQC

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    No problem.

    Apologies but I am still at a loss as to what exactly you wish to achieve. I don't think your question/statements are absurd, just a tad unclear. Working as a lawyer for many years, I can assure you, nothing could strike me as absurd - plus if there is one thing I have learnt through experience is that what is important to one person, may be meaningless to someone else, but it is crucial to treat everything as though it was something important to you. So I am more than happy to help, just need clarification.

    I had a look through your post history but still couldn't understand the link.

    Regards
     
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