My husband has been issued with a temporary DVO and to appear in court next week. We don't have an issue with having no contact with the ex-wife but we want to know, can we disagree with having the children on it? It states that no domestic violence is to be in front of children. Domestic violence these days can be misconstrued as telling your kids off for bad behaviour. There are no family court orders or custody of children issues. I pick the children up every second weekend and we have them all school holidays.