At the moment, my ex-partner has our children Wednesday night through to Friday morning one week, and Wednesday night to Sunday night the other week. He lives 45 minutes away (not in a city, regional area). I have expressed my concern to him about not knowing how our 8-year-old gets to and from school in his care. He works 6:30 am to any time in the afternoon as his work dictates. He says he doesn't have to tell me what goes on when the children are in his care. I've said I'm not happy with the arrangement and we have a Legal Aid Family Dispute Resolution conference in August. He wants 50/50 shared care. I have said no due to distance, history of Domestic Violence and his lack of communication about the children. I also don't know how our 3-year-old is cared for on Thursdays. He goes to two different daycare centres the rest of the week. He also does not tell me where he is going away with the children when they have holidays. I don't care about how they are fed or clothed and other day to day things, but it worries me about not knowing if the children are cared for and if they get to school or not. Is this unreasonable under Family Law? He is aware of who collects and drops off the children at my care times.