Hi, My husband and I have final order for custody of his son (age 11). The orders state that he live with us and see his mother every second weekend and holidays. She can also call each week. He has lived with us going on 5 years and is excelling in school, outside school activities and is a happy well balanced child. We have had these final order since September 2013. To date she goes months with out seeing him and he will only see her for the day he won't stay over night. She rings irregularly often monthly to 6 weeks apart. We don't even know where she's living to be able to take the child to see her. Anyway, tonight we got served with documents to attend court regarding a parenting order for the child. From what I've read and also understood of the family law act, once you have final Orders you can only apply to vary them if you have reasonable grounds not apply to change the whole order. Am I correct in thinking this? We're also concerned about what step we should take next as our lawyer cost us everything and we are just worried we will have to pay more and have it thrown out. FYI she got all legal aid funded. Any help would be great. Thank you.