I haven't seen my children for 4 years. I fell apart when my husband left me. He lodged the divorce papers sighting full custody of children. I have no memory of receiving these as I had sent him signed papers showing joint custody. The next thing I know, the divorce papers arrive, the judge says "I'm not entirely satisfied the best interest of the children has been considered, but I'll grant the divorce anyway. Why did the family court fail me and my kids?