Thanks Winston Wolf. One thing for sure is that I, as the executor, have tried in vain not to run up costs for the estate. It's the opposition being my sister's legal representatives (law firm) that are wasting away the estate's value by arguing the property's value.
I have had a sworn valuator come to the property and valuated the property. They weren't happy with me appointing a valuator, so they organized there own valuator and there valuation came in 15k less than my valuator.
They had the valuation report in their hands 2 days prior to a second directions hearing, and at the hearing, they still argued that the property was worth a 950k when the the valuation report I had was 775k. Theirs was 760k.
The trial judge replied that they cannot presume or guess the value off the property and said it's easy to get a sworn valuation. They didn't tell the trial judge that they have had a valuation report performed by a sworn valuator.
I went to mediation trying to be fair and reasonable but they presented themselves with two solicitors and one barrister. Did they need two solicitors too take notes? No, I would think and my barrister and solicitor and the mediator themselves had a few words to themselves about it. At mediation, nothing was resolved. I have even tried to come to some agreement with her by approaching her myself by going to her place but that didn't work. She never cared to much about my parents, she went to the solicitors the day after we lay my dear mother to rest. By the way, she didn't even come to her burial. Only attended church on the day.
I. myself, had my mum stay with me at my home off a night and she would be at her home off a day. It was easy for us because we lived 2 streets away from each other that being 600 metres in distance from one another since my dear dad passed away in 2009. She passed away this year. I was told that i can't claim my father's funeral expenses either cause his estate was passed on to my mother. A cost of 40k. Is it also true that I can claim my expenditures on the upkeep of their home?
Going back on the affidavits...She has changed hers 3 times. The last one they handed it in 10 minutes before mediation. How was i supposed to defend the estate without having the time to read it?
Are they allowed to do that?
There are a few questions in my reply Winston Wolf if you have any answers to them, it would be appreciated.
I've made a appointment with another law firm for a second opinion in the coming week and to see if my solicitor is up to speed with everything.