Hi,
My son split up with his ex quite a few months ago. He removed his children after finding they were being exposed to ice, the people dealing it hanging around, and ice hidden in their toys. He has refused access to the children until she is off the drugs and not hanging around the dealers and low lives.
There is no custody of children in place, as he's been told it's very expensive and still has to deal with paying her out her share of house.
He has been stalked, harassed, set up, abused and there were many reports to police who are well aware of her. She is very calculating, vindictive and will go to any length to discredit him. Even going as far as taking him to court for domestic violence and child abuse, which is untrue.
He doesn't want his children in her environment. The worse part is he was suffering from domestic abuse and as far as any help goes, he's a bloke, so there is hardly any. He has been to Relationships Australia, done courses for his children on how to deal with breakups, support groups and mediation as well as DOCs.
She has contacted Domestic Violence support. Rung DOCs once and is now applying to the Federal Circuit Court without the proper steps taken. It is taking its toll on our family being followed, lied about, Facebook nastiness - you name it. She's done it, including putting tears on for the appropriate legals.
She has 2 AVOs on her now, with a 3rd pending and goes to court for a couple of breaches soon. We are at wits end as we are dealing with a narcissistic junkie.
There seems to be no real help out there for him to protect his children from her wicked ways. Fulltime custody is out of the question right now as he is paying out so much to courts against her lies, as well as property settlement of the house which I mentioned earlier.
At the end of the day, she's coming up with anything she can to get him in jail so she can take the house and kids. He did pay for the house out of his compensation. She's on the deed and he is stuck paying her car off.
She doesn't really want the kids but to get the house it's a bonus for her to have them.
We love them dearly and have been doing our utmost to protect them. Our stress levels are maxed out. What are our chances..and who out there can help?
We don't know what to do anymore.
Thanks in advance for any kick in the right direction..:/
My son split up with his ex quite a few months ago. He removed his children after finding they were being exposed to ice, the people dealing it hanging around, and ice hidden in their toys. He has refused access to the children until she is off the drugs and not hanging around the dealers and low lives.
There is no custody of children in place, as he's been told it's very expensive and still has to deal with paying her out her share of house.
He has been stalked, harassed, set up, abused and there were many reports to police who are well aware of her. She is very calculating, vindictive and will go to any length to discredit him. Even going as far as taking him to court for domestic violence and child abuse, which is untrue.
He doesn't want his children in her environment. The worse part is he was suffering from domestic abuse and as far as any help goes, he's a bloke, so there is hardly any. He has been to Relationships Australia, done courses for his children on how to deal with breakups, support groups and mediation as well as DOCs.
She has contacted Domestic Violence support. Rung DOCs once and is now applying to the Federal Circuit Court without the proper steps taken. It is taking its toll on our family being followed, lied about, Facebook nastiness - you name it. She's done it, including putting tears on for the appropriate legals.
She has 2 AVOs on her now, with a 3rd pending and goes to court for a couple of breaches soon. We are at wits end as we are dealing with a narcissistic junkie.
There seems to be no real help out there for him to protect his children from her wicked ways. Fulltime custody is out of the question right now as he is paying out so much to courts against her lies, as well as property settlement of the house which I mentioned earlier.
At the end of the day, she's coming up with anything she can to get him in jail so she can take the house and kids. He did pay for the house out of his compensation. She's on the deed and he is stuck paying her car off.
She doesn't really want the kids but to get the house it's a bonus for her to have them.
We love them dearly and have been doing our utmost to protect them. Our stress levels are maxed out. What are our chances..and who out there can help?
We don't know what to do anymore.
Thanks in advance for any kick in the right direction..:/
