My brother going through a really bad time. Worried about him.
Ex had affairs for 2 years while with my brother. My brother tried to make the marriage work for 2 years, however, ex continued going out every weekend and have more affairs and kick him out back in December, stating she wanted her own life.
He has access to his girls every weekend and on Thursday nights. My brother met a lovely lady months later and that’s when ex wanted brother back. New girls were introduced to kids 8 months later.
Most Sundays ex refuses to take kids back at arranged drop off time at 2 pm. Last minute she refuses the girls and wants them dropped off that night or he has to have them overnight and take to school. Her excuse is she is too tired or lying about working, therefore impacting his work.
She is now changing arrangements every week with times, esp drop off times ( which affects kids, raising anxiety not knowing why they can’t see mum at 2 pm).
Starting to threaten to refuse him access to girls on weekends, etc. and kept threatening not to have girls at all at Christmas, etc.
She is encouraging parental alienation and kids starting to question their dad regarding adult issues. For example blaming him for breaking up family, saying mum owns the house, not dad, etc, etc, and starting to affect the relationship with their dad.
She is refusing to go to mediation. She messages him on a daily basis saying hurtful things about him and how girls hate him. He has been issued with 60i Cert.
He can’t keep this up on daily basis, especially the girls starting to question him on adult issues. And ex messages him every day with emotional abuse and consistently asking him for money.
My brother pays $250 weekly for 3 girls 7 8 and 10. For ex to have girls 4 arvos a week. As well car her car repayments, her rego , house insurance and contents as well as extra for birthdays and school holidays.
When she asks for extra and my brother says no she gets very emotionally abusive and involves girls saying daddy does not care about us, etc. Lawyers involved and not really saying anything, except, try with mediation and go to court.
This is urgent as kids are being emotionally abused by mum by encouraging them to hate dad
Help us, please.
Ex had affairs for 2 years while with my brother. My brother tried to make the marriage work for 2 years, however, ex continued going out every weekend and have more affairs and kick him out back in December, stating she wanted her own life.
He has access to his girls every weekend and on Thursday nights. My brother met a lovely lady months later and that’s when ex wanted brother back. New girls were introduced to kids 8 months later.
Most Sundays ex refuses to take kids back at arranged drop off time at 2 pm. Last minute she refuses the girls and wants them dropped off that night or he has to have them overnight and take to school. Her excuse is she is too tired or lying about working, therefore impacting his work.
She is now changing arrangements every week with times, esp drop off times ( which affects kids, raising anxiety not knowing why they can’t see mum at 2 pm).
Starting to threaten to refuse him access to girls on weekends, etc. and kept threatening not to have girls at all at Christmas, etc.
She is encouraging parental alienation and kids starting to question their dad regarding adult issues. For example blaming him for breaking up family, saying mum owns the house, not dad, etc, etc, and starting to affect the relationship with their dad.
She is refusing to go to mediation. She messages him on a daily basis saying hurtful things about him and how girls hate him. He has been issued with 60i Cert.
He can’t keep this up on daily basis, especially the girls starting to question him on adult issues. And ex messages him every day with emotional abuse and consistently asking him for money.
My brother pays $250 weekly for 3 girls 7 8 and 10. For ex to have girls 4 arvos a week. As well car her car repayments, her rego , house insurance and contents as well as extra for birthdays and school holidays.
When she asks for extra and my brother says no she gets very emotionally abusive and involves girls saying daddy does not care about us, etc. Lawyers involved and not really saying anything, except, try with mediation and go to court.
This is urgent as kids are being emotionally abused by mum by encouraging them to hate dad
Help us, please.