Hi all, I hope I can get some help with an ongoing issue. In a nutshell, my ex-wife is refusing to have anything to do with a parenting plan for our 7 year old daughter and is constantly refusing me or anyone on my side of the family access to her. She has refused mediation and I have the 60i for this, however, due to her constant attempts to destroy my reputation, only weeks after her receiving her Australian citizenship, by false assault claims each time to a different police station, all of which I was never charged with, the Victorian police suggested I get as far away from this woman as possible as they cannot stop her making false claims ( yes, they cannot stop this ). So I am now residing back in NZ with my family. I am fighting hard to maintain contact with my daughter and I believe it is the child's right to to have contact with both parents. I know I can force my ex to do this by taking her to court, and I just don't have the money as I have lost almost everything over the last 3 nasty years of this messy situation and I don't believe I'm entitled to legal aid. An example of the situation is my ex and our daughter went away on holiday recently. My ex didn't bother to tell me they were going away, but our daughter let it slip during an online chat. She also let me know when they were returning. So 4 days after they were to return, I had heard nothing and had exhausted every contact to find out if they were safe. I ended up having to get the local police to knock on the door to see if they were ok. So my question is, is my ex breaking Family law by abusing my daughter's rights? I personally feel it is child abuse as our daughter loves her dad and has always been a daddy's girl which my ex absolutely hates and this is physiological abuse. Where do I go from here? Sorry for the bad grammar. My blood pressure rises when I discuss this. This situation is also badly affecting my health!