Hello, I'm looking for some advice I'll give a brief history about what is going on and go from there. My ex girlfriend which I had been with for a year and a half has opened a blog about me basically trying to destroy my reputation, she has sent links to from what I know most of my friends and people we know mutually. I'm worried as this has already affected friendships and could be a threat to my future and my career. Is it defamation? I tried to end the relationship numerous times, the first time being 3 months into the relationship when I knew something wasn't right. She threatened suicide each time I would try to end the relationship I was basically trapped having the fear that she would end her life if I really did leave which lead to a panic attack disorder. I would often have to stop her from harming herself and hide things such as knifes. I can't explain properly on her how much this kind of stress as taken a toll on my health and not knowing where to turn my mind was so twisted that I had accepted that this was now my life, with her, extremely unhappy. She eventually broke up with me last December before a family holiday and tried to reconcile things I would not have it which lead to another threat of suicide, this time I couldn't handle it and called her mother, step father, and brother. I've tried to get her help all throughout the relationship offering to pay for councillor, psychologist, and psychiatrist all of which she refused. I'm really at my wits end here I'm only 25 all I've tried to do is help this girl. All I want is this to be over but she will not let it end, this is the last position I'd ever imagine myself in. This is a very brief description of events. Any advice would be great, thank you.