I can't afford to go back to family court, X refuses to mediate. Kids have medical issues and X refuses to take advice of medical staff. As we have 50/50 custody of children, this is a real concern. X lies to everyone and gets away with it and the judge is bias. Oh and I can't get legal aid. We have been to counselling together and separately but that also didn't work as X ignores all advice. X has a replacement wife and she is willing to back his lies so as not to rock the boat of the comfortable life she now leads. We have an independent children's lawyer ( ICL) but can't go direct we have to go via a lawyer which I can't afford and X know that so the situation just continues to get worse.