I am a father of twin boys which have been alienated against me. It's been 5 years I have not seen them. I have family court orders and all was great with them until their mother decided to stop them and not turning up for pick up. This happened numerous times until I decided to enforce the orders through the courts. It took two years and a lot of $$$ and got absolute nowhere. False allegations against me were upsetting and she did everything in her power not to let the kids near me. She is very insecure with herself and does not realise the damage for the kids. I ran out of money at the end and Legal Aid Victoria would not help. Can I sue for emotional damage to myself? How can I get the children back in my life? They were 10 at the time and they didn't even call me dad and don't care for me and completely shut me out. When I had them, they were so lovable and so happy then things turned! Tried everything.