Sadly my 10 year marriage is about to become another divorce statistic. We have 2 kids - 6 and 1. To cut to the chase I would like advice on the following:
Custody - I am concerned with kids visiting their father. He isn’t very responsible and cares mostly about hanging with his mates. They drink and smoke. He is happy to just dump them in front of tv and just leave them unsupervised. Anyone could have access to them. If I’m not present who will shield my kids from this? How can I ensure that he can’t have people around when he has the kids ? I just want them to be safe not to keep them from him.
Property - the house is in his name. He had bought the house about 2 years before we got married. We share bills but he pays the mortgage. Mind you I pay all child care fees which is as much as the mortgage. I pay for swimming lessons, clothes for kids, medical for them and 75 percent of food. Given that am I still entitled to any share of the family Home?
Thanks for any advice
Custody - I am concerned with kids visiting their father. He isn’t very responsible and cares mostly about hanging with his mates. They drink and smoke. He is happy to just dump them in front of tv and just leave them unsupervised. Anyone could have access to them. If I’m not present who will shield my kids from this? How can I ensure that he can’t have people around when he has the kids ? I just want them to be safe not to keep them from him.
Property - the house is in his name. He had bought the house about 2 years before we got married. We share bills but he pays the mortgage. Mind you I pay all child care fees which is as much as the mortgage. I pay for swimming lessons, clothes for kids, medical for them and 75 percent of food. Given that am I still entitled to any share of the family Home?
Thanks for any advice