I'm currently paying child support for my son. He is now 15. I have not seen him since he was 3 due to no fault of my own. My son's mother keeps disappearing. The family court gave me visiting rights, but I cannot locate him. I am now engaged and have three young kids. A lot of my pay each week goes on child support for my son who I cannot see; he probably doesn’t even know I exist. I don't think its fair how my three kids now in my care have to miss out on things because of child support. Do I have any rights? My issue is not the money I pay, it's that I cannot see my son I don't know where he is. I'm at any wits end its getting to the stage now where I'm thinking about waiving my parental rights too. Any advice please on what I should do.