Hi there,
I am currently holding an australian pr, I have been married to a pr holder for aprox 4 years. After marriage and moving to Australia I stopped working and started taking a part time master course. In the meanwhile we had a baby, who is now 15 months old. Now I am a stay at home mom and continue undertaking part time master course. My marriage has been troubleful since our first year. In the begining I though it was only because we are from different countries/cultures/raised up in different families, but since a while ago I have realised something else is wrong with our relationship. After long hours reading, watching videos and listening to audios I could identify myself as victim of emotional and verbal abuse (before I was too naive and to hopeful things would get better to understand what was happening).
My husband have already threatned me he will fight for our baby's custody if we get divorced. However, in daily basis I am the one who does absolutely everything for our baby, my husband doesn't participate much other than few minutes a day having a quick play with the baby. I could make a long list showing examples of my husbands neglect and sefishness towards me, and now our baby. Every time he had opportunity to take care of the baby I have witnessed him putting his needs and wants first than the baby and ending up even not caring for food quality and eating/sleeping time. All this time he has never given a bath in the baby by himself, he also never showed any initative or interest to see when something is needed for the baby and go and get it. He also doesn't help at all with the housekeeping. I am extremely worried that in the event of a divorce my husband gets the custody, I am worried about my baby's wellbeing. Since I have no job and I am a pr holder I am afraid of loosing my baby's custody. Does anyone had similar experience or could guide on that?
I am currently holding an australian pr, I have been married to a pr holder for aprox 4 years. After marriage and moving to Australia I stopped working and started taking a part time master course. In the meanwhile we had a baby, who is now 15 months old. Now I am a stay at home mom and continue undertaking part time master course. My marriage has been troubleful since our first year. In the begining I though it was only because we are from different countries/cultures/raised up in different families, but since a while ago I have realised something else is wrong with our relationship. After long hours reading, watching videos and listening to audios I could identify myself as victim of emotional and verbal abuse (before I was too naive and to hopeful things would get better to understand what was happening).
My husband have already threatned me he will fight for our baby's custody if we get divorced. However, in daily basis I am the one who does absolutely everything for our baby, my husband doesn't participate much other than few minutes a day having a quick play with the baby. I could make a long list showing examples of my husbands neglect and sefishness towards me, and now our baby. Every time he had opportunity to take care of the baby I have witnessed him putting his needs and wants first than the baby and ending up even not caring for food quality and eating/sleeping time. All this time he has never given a bath in the baby by himself, he also never showed any initative or interest to see when something is needed for the baby and go and get it. He also doesn't help at all with the housekeeping. I am extremely worried that in the event of a divorce my husband gets the custody, I am worried about my baby's wellbeing. Since I have no job and I am a pr holder I am afraid of loosing my baby's custody. Does anyone had similar experience or could guide on that?