My Husband has had several affairs behind my back in which I have found out about. One has resulted in a child who I now 1 years old. I have told him clearly that he is not to see or have anything to do with the child who is a mistake .I have told my children not to see or bring up this child to me ever again as well. How can I stop miss home wrecker from accessing money such as child support and in the event my husband passes away any of his money .