Hi all
Our court order was based on property figures ( valuations) that didn't actualise. I took responsibility to sell property & take proceeds. I have complied as best I can, sold 2 properties but took a major financial loss of about $150k. The property settlement court order had me getting about $200k equity from said properties.
As we worked on me getting $200k from property, he was going to give me $75k of his super ( worth about $800K). Yes I know I let him screw me but I just wanted out.
I have one property left to sell but I have been advised that it will sell for $50k-$75k less than the loan which will give me a further loss. I can't take that loss.
My ex is bullying me, constantly contacting me saying that they will do a court order for Enforcement. The pressure from him & his lawyer is very stressful. I have complied as best I can & can show that, but I will not be forced into more financial hardship.
My questions are:
- Is there any recourse for myself as our figures were obviously not reflective of what happened when I sold property.
- What is the legal jargan for me to reply to him & his lawyer to basically say " if you continue with your bullying I will take it all back to court & as I am at a severe loss contrary to what the figures on our court order say, I will go for more of your super" I don't know if there is an avenue for such action & I really don't want to do this but I want to threaten him so they back off.
Thanks so much
Stacey x
Our court order was based on property figures ( valuations) that didn't actualise. I took responsibility to sell property & take proceeds. I have complied as best I can, sold 2 properties but took a major financial loss of about $150k. The property settlement court order had me getting about $200k equity from said properties.
As we worked on me getting $200k from property, he was going to give me $75k of his super ( worth about $800K). Yes I know I let him screw me but I just wanted out.
I have one property left to sell but I have been advised that it will sell for $50k-$75k less than the loan which will give me a further loss. I can't take that loss.
My ex is bullying me, constantly contacting me saying that they will do a court order for Enforcement. The pressure from him & his lawyer is very stressful. I have complied as best I can & can show that, but I will not be forced into more financial hardship.
My questions are:
- Is there any recourse for myself as our figures were obviously not reflective of what happened when I sold property.
- What is the legal jargan for me to reply to him & his lawyer to basically say " if you continue with your bullying I will take it all back to court & as I am at a severe loss contrary to what the figures on our court order say, I will go for more of your super" I don't know if there is an avenue for such action & I really don't want to do this but I want to threaten him so they back off.
Thanks so much
Stacey x
