Hi Anni111,
Your post disgusts me, and you remind me of my ex, to start off with you don't deserve these twins. Here is a few pointers for a femistnazi like yourself.
1. Married 6 years, then in the final 9 months of the relationship, you decide to call it quits, and call him everything under the sun, yet you stayed with him for 6 years prior (this smells of a baby trap, exactly like my own situation)
2. I bet you were a real hoot to live with over the last 9 months as well with your wild mood swings, and your elitist attitude of "I'm pregnant, I can't help out around the house anymore".
3. The fact that you can lay inbed with this poor fellow, and carry his and your children to full term, but then want nothing to do with him, or him, have nothing to do with his own babies is absolutely deplorable. Yet the fact remains without him, you would be giving birth to NOTHING. Yet this shitful country and its shitful biased laws sides with the mothers, don't want him in the birthing suite no problem, want him to have nothing to do with his own kids because you're a bitter and twisted narcissist, fine as well, but eventually when it goes to court he will be given time with his kids, how much will depend on the judge.
4. Its also interesting to note that you call him "controlling" yet it is you who is doing the controlling (reread your own posts).
5. I bet you have the paperwork for child support already filled out as well, just to really stick it to him.
6. Why don't you really do the job on him and finish him off for good and have a DVO taken out on him, then all your problems will be solved, no access to kids, no access to hospital, no access to birthing suite... you win, you complete low life.
I seriously hope you end up with post natal depression whilst trying to raise two lovely babies, and he is in the shadows just waiting to take over.
Seriously pull your head in, and think of these two girls, and stop being so spiteful and driven by hate.