Hello,
Is there any chance that a court will give me full custody of children for my 6 year old daughter after her mother has refused to let me have contact for many years?
I understand that this would be very dramatic and confusing for my daughter in the short term, but the long term it would be the best for my daughter as it would allow her to have a strong relationship with both myself and her mother, as I would not stop my ex from seeing our child or use our child to hurt my ex.
This is not to get back at my ex. If I thought that my ex could grow up and stop trying to use our child to hurt me, then I would gladly ask for 50/50, but my ex has shown that nothing is more important to her than hurting me. This is also not an attempt to avoid paying child support. I would hand over all my money if I could see my child.
While my ex has not physically abused our daughter or have any addictions, she is unstable in her behaviour. I would need to get her properly assessed, but I believe that she maybe a pathological liar or a sociopath. She refuses to believe the horrible things she has said or done towards me. She even denied something to FACS (human services) even though they had proof of it (FACS/DOCS was investigating a third person that both my ex and I are connected with, but they did not look into my ex as a mum).
While I can't go into what the FACS/DOCS investigation was about, I will say that a child was hurt and FACS said that my ex was a bad person/influence for that child to be around as all my ex seemed to want to do is try to turn the children against me. She was trying to manipulate children who she knew had been through an abuse.
My ex has accused me of being a paedophile and then wanted my sympathy when people argued with her about it. I am sure that she will accuse me of this again to keep me from seeing my daughter. I hope that with the above info from FACS that it shows that she just makes up lies.
My ex has proven that she will not follow any orders and will continue to make life difficult. She will either string me along or just stop contact all together. Not only would that be horrible for me, but it would also be horrible for our daughter and my two younger children with my new partner.
My 6 year old daughter has never met her young siblings aged 3 and 1.
How can I show the family law courts that having my daughter live with me full time is the best option to give her a better life?
Is there any chance that a court will give me full custody of children for my 6 year old daughter after her mother has refused to let me have contact for many years?
I understand that this would be very dramatic and confusing for my daughter in the short term, but the long term it would be the best for my daughter as it would allow her to have a strong relationship with both myself and her mother, as I would not stop my ex from seeing our child or use our child to hurt my ex.
This is not to get back at my ex. If I thought that my ex could grow up and stop trying to use our child to hurt me, then I would gladly ask for 50/50, but my ex has shown that nothing is more important to her than hurting me. This is also not an attempt to avoid paying child support. I would hand over all my money if I could see my child.
While my ex has not physically abused our daughter or have any addictions, she is unstable in her behaviour. I would need to get her properly assessed, but I believe that she maybe a pathological liar or a sociopath. She refuses to believe the horrible things she has said or done towards me. She even denied something to FACS (human services) even though they had proof of it (FACS/DOCS was investigating a third person that both my ex and I are connected with, but they did not look into my ex as a mum).
While I can't go into what the FACS/DOCS investigation was about, I will say that a child was hurt and FACS said that my ex was a bad person/influence for that child to be around as all my ex seemed to want to do is try to turn the children against me. She was trying to manipulate children who she knew had been through an abuse.
My ex has accused me of being a paedophile and then wanted my sympathy when people argued with her about it. I am sure that she will accuse me of this again to keep me from seeing my daughter. I hope that with the above info from FACS that it shows that she just makes up lies.
My ex has proven that she will not follow any orders and will continue to make life difficult. She will either string me along or just stop contact all together. Not only would that be horrible for me, but it would also be horrible for our daughter and my two younger children with my new partner.
My 6 year old daughter has never met her young siblings aged 3 and 1.
How can I show the family law courts that having my daughter live with me full time is the best option to give her a better life?